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I snuffed out his life for giving me hell
The Sunday Times (South Africa) ^ | Aug 17,2003 | Nashira Divids

Posted on 08/20/2003 9:23:12 AM PDT by ijcr

After Ann-Marie Engelbrecht suffocated her husband with a plastic bag in their bed, she went to the next room to smoke a cigarette with her friends.

The Joburg High Court heard this week how the 29-year-old nursing sister from Krugersdorp bought handcuffs from a sex shop on June 29 last year, tied her husband Jakobus Johannes Engelbrecht's hands behind his back and put a plastic bag over his head before joining her friends in another room.

Engelbrecht confessed to killing her husband and tearfully told the court she thought she had "no other choice" because he had made her life "a living hell" and because she saw no future for her and her five-year-old daughter with him.

In her bail application after her confession and conviction, she claimed her husband physically, verbally and emotionally abused her for most of their 10-year marriage.

At one stage they separated and she sought a divorce but he "terrorised" her.

"Every time I would have to move to get away from him, but he would always find me. He would terrorise me at work and even at home," she said.

Engelbrecht claims he was not just jealous, he was possessive and said it was so bad that she couldn't even speak to patients.

But after they separated she suffered financially. She said she had two jobs to support her and her daughter.

She got back together with her husband because she wanted a stable life for her child. But she said the abuse continued.

Engelbrecht told the court that she had been awaiting trial for 14 months and during her time in jail had seen her daughter only twice.

And she said that because her artificial eye hadn't been replaced for close to a year, she was suffering from severe headaches and nausea.

She had received a pension payout of R10 000 and could afford to pay for bail.

"I feel as if part of me has been taken away. I just sit there every day and do nothing," she said.

But the prosecution opposed her bail application and told Engelbrecht that she had not even bothered to show up at court for one of her domestic violence cases.

The prosecution also said that she had often left her daughter with her husband to go to nightclubs and on one occasion had stayed away for more than a week.

The court also heard that her husband had caught her in bed with another man, but all he had said at the time was that she should not do it in front of their child.

She allegedly tried to get a gun to kill her husband three days before the murder and even asked a colleague if he knew of a poison that would not show up in postmortem tests.

But Engelbrecht denied all the allegations. On the morning of the murder, she said, her husband had asked her to fetch a package containing a video, ointment and a magazine from a sex shop a friend of his owned.

While she was there she decided to buy the handcuffs that she later used on him.

She said the family had a braai and her husband drank rum all day. Later, after he had gone to bed and fallen asleep, she handcuffed him and suffocated him.

On Thursday, Judge Kathy Satchwell denied bail but ordered that Engelbrecht get immediate medical attention and that her glass eye be replaced before December 1, when the case resumes for sentencing.

Before Engelbrecht was taken back into custody, Judge Satchwell allowed her to spend a few moments with a friend.

What followed was a tearful goodbye as the rest of the court watched on in silence.

Marius Engelbrecht, the dead man's younger brother, said: " The worst is to watch my niece crying for her father every day. She sleeps with his picture under her pillow."


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Extended News; Foreign Affairs
KEYWORDS: murder; pufflist
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Beware of one-eyed women who smoke and carry handcuffs in a plastic bag.
1 posted on 08/20/2003 9:23:14 AM PDT by ijcr
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To: ijcr
Just make sure it's your word against a dead man's.
2 posted on 08/20/2003 9:25:07 AM PDT by thoughtomator (Are we conservatives, or are we Republicans?)
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To: Gabz
Hey gabz, what is worse about this crazy broad? That she seduced her low-life husband with handcuffs and a pretense of kinky sex before suffocating him with a plastic bag, or that she calmly went into the next room and smoked a cigarette with friends immediately afterward? ;)
3 posted on 08/20/2003 9:27:00 AM PDT by VRWCmember
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To: ijcr
This gal has reason to worry. John F. Banzhaf III and his ilk will probably try to put her in jail. For smoking, of course.

Michael M. Bates: My Side of the Swamp

4 posted on 08/20/2003 9:30:11 AM PDT by mikeb704
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To: VRWCmember
You know the anti-smokers will call this a smoking related death.

What a sick %itch.
5 posted on 08/20/2003 9:31:51 AM PDT by Gabz (anti-smokers - personification of everything wrong in this country.)
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To: Gabz
You know the anti-smokers will call this a smoking related death.

I guess it does qualify as one, doesn't it.

6 posted on 08/20/2003 9:34:29 AM PDT by VRWCmember
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Beware of one-eyed women who smoke and carry handcuffs in a plastic bag.

Not to mention ... a video, ointment and a magazine

7 posted on 08/20/2003 9:37:09 AM PDT by MotleyGirl70
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To: mikeb704; *puff_list; Just another Joe; Flurry; SheLion
As I said - it will be considered a smoking related death.
8 posted on 08/20/2003 9:37:37 AM PDT by Gabz (anti-smokers - personification of everything wrong in this country.)
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To: VRWCmember
And a premature one, at that.
9 posted on 08/20/2003 9:38:27 AM PDT by Gabz (anti-smokers - personification of everything wrong in this country.)
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...That she seduced her low-life husband with handcuffs and a pretense of kinky sex before suffocating him with a plastic bag, ...

As I understand it, the poor innocent chap was drunk and asleep when she did all this.

From what we have read so far, none of us knows the truth. His family and friends are defending him and her's her. We will know soon enough, I guess.

10 posted on 08/20/2003 9:40:32 AM PDT by Mind-numbed Robot (Not all things that need to be done need to be done by the government.)
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"Was it as good for you..as it was for me?" she said furtively
"I expect not"...she muffled a chuckle and slipped into the next room for a drink and a cigarette basking in the afterglow with a few friends
11 posted on 08/20/2003 9:45:44 AM PDT by joesnuffy (Moderate Islam Is For Dilettantes)
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To: ijcr
Poor guy forgot to put the lid down one too many times.
12 posted on 08/20/2003 9:49:58 AM PDT by gov_bean_ counter
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To: ijcr
A wonderful story of an empowered woman, coming soon to "LIFETIME".
13 posted on 08/20/2003 9:53:46 AM PDT by montag813
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"But after they separated she suffered financially. She said she had two jobs...."
"She got back together with her husband because..."

....because blahblahblahblah....

14 posted on 08/20/2003 9:57:31 AM PDT by dogbrain ("Life is hard son. It's harder if you're stupid.")
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To: Gabz
Sounds like a smoker. All smokers lure people into a trap and take their lives. Blah blah blah.
15 posted on 08/20/2003 10:08:32 AM PDT by Conspiracy Guy (If John Kerry was a bobble head doll, he'd need a smaller head.)
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To: Howlin; Ed_NYC; MonroeDNA; widgysoft; Springman; Timesink; dubyaismypresident; Grani; coug97; ...
Just damn.

If you want on the new list, FReepmail me. This IS a high-volume PING list...

16 posted on 08/20/2003 10:09:19 AM PDT by mhking
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To: ijcr
All around the world you can hear the sound of handcuffs being thrown away.
17 posted on 08/20/2003 10:14:38 AM PDT by Lady Jag (Googolplex Star Thinker of the Seventh Galaxy of Light and Ingenuity)
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To: ijcr
And she said that because her artificial eye hadn't been replaced for close to a year, she was suffering from severe headaches and nausea.

On Thursday, Judge Kathy Satchwell denied bail but ordered that Engelbrecht get immediate medical attention and that her glass eye be replaced before December 1, when the case resumes for sentencing.

Well, at least she gets a free eye out of the deal.

18 posted on 08/20/2003 10:27:57 AM PDT by Old Professer
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"Hey gabz, what is worse about this crazy broad? That she seduced her low-life husband with handcuffs and a pretense of kinky sex before suffocating him with a plastic bag, or that she calmly went into the next room and smoked a cigarette with friends immediately afterward? ;)

I always thought you are supposed to smoke after sex, not a murder.

19 posted on 08/20/2003 10:37:15 AM PDT by albee
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To: Flurry
ROFL!!!!!!!!
20 posted on 08/20/2003 10:45:38 AM PDT by Gabz (anti-smokers - personification of everything wrong in this country.)
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